Have such an intimate friend life, that time, I know, look for how difficult one thing was one like you friend, I only know, you will promise, you can accompany me to do a lot of things that you do not like doing in a lot of unreasonable requirements of mine, so long as when I want you to go pestering you, you can not always keep out my trick, accompany me to go shopping crazily, the crazy one eats, the crazy one is played with, I know deeply, you dote on me very much, just as treating family.

We agree on, go everywhere forget, each other, break the connection, because can not make several so intimate a friends all one's life, we want exceptional treasuring. We say later, one have a good time some, another one follow, eat well also; If one is crossed and had it is not very well, you gnaw the steamed bun, I follow to gnaw the steamed bun, unnecessary as treating the ordinary friend courteously.

I who am present hope to send to the intimate friend very much, but in a little grieved and dirty world that trips and falls here, I do not find, do not know either how to look for, your sincerity sometimes, others can not see, I am a little disappointed, thorough disappointment. I always like the feeling of staying with the good friend, there are too much ones that needn't be afraid, go, weigh with money everything is like this and bright, my experience, so, I also want the experience, however, after leaving the school, we separate, I only put that friendship in the heart, go to look for the kindhearted friend as you, but will always be rebuffed, in fact, I see, it is you that want what have anything, I complain I cherish the memory of and hope just  

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秋白菜醃在小缸裡有些日子了，又往裡加了點水，只見白菜與壓在上面的小方石的空隙處往外冒著有靈感的小水泡。用手撫摸著這塊在砲台山上捧回來的方石，現在已沒有了它深居山野時的灰塵，已被幾年來的水洗沖刷得乾乾淨淨。
　　
看到方石想到了石頭，讓我感受最深的是《紅樓夢》中的那塊頑石。 《紅樓夢》一開頭就寫了這塊頑石無才補天、幻形入世的故事，是全書的真正開端。這塊頑石，自有其一番經歷，構成一個既似寓言又像神話的故事。頑石在紅塵中見到、聽到、遇到層出不窮的人間喜劇、人生悲劇之後，最後又出世歸山，返本還原，回到青埂峰下。講述了“無材可去補蒼天，枉入紅塵若許年。此系身前身後事，倩誰記去作奇傳”的傳奇故事。 《紅樓夢》中的這塊山野頑石的一來一去，有著天地玄黃，風雨滌蕩，萬變不變的禪定。與人生一世的生死，都在驗證著一個道理：自然界的輪迴，一切都是有定數的。
　　
小時候，在爺爺給我講的歷史故事中，我知道了“梁武帝時有云光法師講經，感動上天，天花紛紛墜落”的關於雨花石的神話故事；在父親當年拉唱的三弦中，我知道了傳說中頑石是女媧補天煉燒的紅、黃、藍、白、黑五彩靈石，亦稱補天頑石的傳說；後來，在我迷戀的廣播劇中知道了木魚石的傳說。在以前看過《東林十八高賢傳》時，記下了這樣一句話：“竺道生入虎丘山，聚石為徒，講《涅槃經》，群石皆點頭。”這句話告訴我：石頭是有靈性的，只要道理講清，也會點頭稱讚。也許這就是成語“精誠所至，金石為開”的前身吧！
　　
“林盡水源，便得一山，山有小口，豁然開朗，土地曠達，石舍儼然……”晉代陶淵明在《桃花源記》中所描寫的田園式景像在太行山深處石頭村成為真實寫照。上學時學習這篇文章的時候，沒感覺到“石舍儼然”的穩重與持靜，當若干年後去我市南128公里處的官馬溶洞旅遊的時候，置身於景物奇特，巧奪天工的溶洞內，才感受到了變幻莫測的鐘乳石、巨大的石花壁、多姿的露滴石的“石舍儼然”的自在的純樸與靜美。這種靜美，來自於上千萬年的滄桑和洗禮之後的成熟、老氣、穩重和謙卑。上千萬年曆練，上千萬年沈默，頑石經過了氣體到液體再到固體演化而來，遵循了自然的演化過程。成為了固體的你確千姿百態的形式展示給眾人。永恆堅守，天地歷練，承諾如斯是頑石永遠的癡情！
　　
頑石在千溝萬壑中自然存在，也在經歷了千百萬年甚至上億年的風吹雨打後，以藝術作品的精美走進了人們的視野。曾經在北京辦事的時候，閒逛大柵欄，被一個門臉不大的店鋪門前的“頑石有價情無價”的廣告牌子招了進去。進去一看是許多精美的小石子上刻畫著“屬相”，買了一個女兒的屬相放進包裡。現在這塊屬相石帶在身在異鄉的女兒身邊。在沒有刻畫前的這塊石頭一定也是一塊不起眼兒的頑石，今天演化成一塊美妙的小石子，要經歷多少道工序呢？都說石本無心，人卻有意，你雖不能言，卻有著吐納不盡的千言萬語。花若解語還多事，石不能言最可人，這塊屬相石無心有情，是女兒帶在身邊的我永遠的牽掛與思念。
　　
“老可能為竹寫真，小坡今與石傳神”，蘇東坡自信最能傳達詩的情操石的品格。山野中的頑石，不能成就山的高大，不能成就海的遼闊，卻在平凡的所在完成著自己的使命。你雖不能言，但歷經水鐫土蝕，無論造型、紋路，都像有著吐納不盡的千言萬語。 《紅樓夢》中的頑石，從幻想世界轉到現實世界，化為一“物”——通靈寶玉；山野中許多頑石，經過能工巧匠的精心雕刻成為一塊塊精美的裝飾品；以《紅樓夢》別名“石頭記”為品牌名稱的飾品現也暢銷於南北市場。明代戲曲家王錂曾在《尋親記·懲惡》寫過：“有名豈在鐫頑石，路上行人口似碑。”想起王錂這句話，不僅讓我聯想到現在深山或者墓地中聽那些墓碑。古往今來，把功績勒於石土，以傳後世的一種石刻的石碑，至今還在山野裡經歷著風霜雨雪的洗刷，依然保持著宇宙爆炸，粒子相湮，錚骨猶存的靜默。
　　
　　一石一塵埃，一石一世界。頑石年輕的時候生活在地幔，是一股熾熱的岩漿，終於有一天，來到一座活火山之下，在一次火山噴發中鑽出了地殼，冷卻成堅硬的固態岩石，那時的形狀棱角分明，形態突兀。但經歷了滄海桑田的磨礪，尖銳的棱角被磨平了，肌膚被水流沖擊得光滑。無論是在億萬沙礫之中，還是幽深晦暗的海底，亦或是在深山老林之中，都有頑石的存在。也許它還未經足夠的修琢，以致外形頑醜；也許它還未能綻放最美的光茫，以致不能閃耀人們的眼睛。但當世事如水般沖走了包在外面的塵垢，便會知道它將來一定會不凡？它必在頑冥之中透著坦誠、直率和真實，在冰遂之中透出火般熱忱，它必要脫盡塵垢而後已，正如曹雪芹在《題自畫詩》中寫道的“不求邀眾賞，瀟灑做頑仙”一樣。

曾教孩子們學過一篇題為《信任》的文章，講的是兩個小姑娘一起到郊外桃園摘桃子，她們乘車數十里來到農場的桃園，意外地發現，園裡連個人影都沒有。主人只在農莊的一間小屋裡留了便條，意思大概是這樣：如果您是一位口渴的路人，請隨意摘取桃子解渴；如果您是想買桃子的顧客，請按照採摘的價錢付賬。屋子的角落裡有竹籃，可放桃子，5元一個，錢放到左邊的抽屜裡就行。兩個小姑娘按照便條上的指示，高高興興地摘了一籃桃子，算好賬，拉開抽屜，裡面零散地堆放著很多錢。看到這一幕，不僅是文中的主人公，相信作為讀者的我們，內心都洋溢起陣陣溫暖，那是信任帶來的美好情感。故事中，未曾露面的桃園主人對所有人的信賴，讓我們油然而生一種崇敬！當然隨之而來的也有一份傷感，這故事發生的國外。

我常常會想起小時候的事情，可能那會兒教師對學生進行的思想品德教育是非常成功的。我入隊時，聽老師說紅領巾是國旗的一角，是革命烈士的鮮血染成的，就真得相信了。不僅是我，大家都這樣。每天清晨，胸前佩戴著紅領巾的我們走在上學路上，在心潮澎湃中幻想：什麼模樣的烈士把鮮血滴在自己的領巾上呢？這樣一想，就感覺自己也變得神聖起來，渾身充滿了學習的動力。當然諸如此類的舉動還有很多，每每憶起，我都會莞爾一笑。與其說小孩子過於純真，不如說那個時代促使了彼此的信任。

而今的我們遠離了天真和純樸，在生活的磨練中逐漸成熟，都以為自己長大了，卻在不知不覺中迷失了方向，丟了自我，生活是越來越好，幸福再也找不到，因為信任遠離了我們的心房！

友人曾跟我提起這樣一件事情：某區的一個鄉鎮維修公路期間，有外縣區的一男子開車途經這裡，不巧剛剛下過一場秋雨，道路很是泥濘。男子一不小心把污泥濺到旁邊一步行的女人身上，忙上前道歉。女人心中很是不滿，但也沒過分追究。男子以為事情過去了，繼續開車前行。這女人回到家裡，不知如何跟丈夫訴說的，反正丈夫聽完，立刻電話通知了六七個哥們開車追趕男子而去，因為路途坎坷，不一會這堆人就追上了，兩廂裡一照面，話不投機。做丈夫的竟叫自己的哥們儿群起打之。男子雙拳難敵四手，被毆打中看到不遠處就是鎮裡的派出所，連滾帶爬地跑向那裡。他以為警察可以救他一命，萬萬沒有想到，任他喊破喉嚨，警察就是沒有出來，最後被活活地打死在派出所門口。事後警察的說辭是正在網上開會，沒聽到門口的打架聲。這藉口找的不算聰明，稍有腦筋的人都會想到，這樣一個群毆的場面，沒有動靜嗎？

想到朋友說的這事情，我就不寒而栗，一個大活人就這樣生生的被打死在警察眼皮底下，他的陰魂會久久在派出所門口不散吧！說不定在嚥氣之前，他後悔向警察求救了，“信任”這詞真讓人傷感！

十一放假期間，母親去了一趟老家，回來告知村里一戶人家因電線陳舊引起了火災，先是紙糊的天棚著了，接著煤氣罐開始漏氣，（總閥門沒關）連帶櫃櫥等木製家具著火。據說大火是六點時，老頭用電水壺燒水引發的，失火後村人立刻撥打了119。可這火警竟比蝸牛還慢，直到七點半才到。試想一所地震（唐山大地震）之前的老房子，怎麼經得起這樣持續燃燒的大火，村人的水盆和水桶根本起不了什麼作用。大家眼睜睜地看著房子化為灰燼，連一床被子都沒搶救出來。等到拉著警報的火警們趕到，地面上的一堆堆冒煙的炭灰是對他們最大的諷刺。村子距縣城僅十里，且十里都是筆直的柏油公路啊！按理說這火警到位應該有一定的時間限制，純樸的百姓們沒有向他們追究什麼，只是此後，再不信任他們罷了！

凱撒在他的羅馬帝國如日中天之時，也曾說過類似的話：“信任如醉酒，一試就後悔。”試想國之君王尚且如此，何況普通的百姓了，現實如斯，我們還能相信誰？
　　
提起信任，令人憂傷。

我聽見花朵綻放的聲音，我看見花朵嬌媚的容顏，在這芳菲染盡的人間四月。
　　
一種溫柔的感覺立刻俘獲了我，如纖纖女子的香囊，香韻熱烈的灑滿了衣裙，直讓人有沉迷在夢境裡的幻覺，我只願醉在這一壇花朵的酒窖裡，永不要醒來。
　　
面對花朵，這樣美好的生靈，我常不能抑制自己的歡喜，眼睛感受到的美，其實亦是心靈感受的映照，我怎能拒絕這樣的美麗，那是一種天然生成的需索，世界之大，美亦是無處不在的。
　　
面對花朵，我無法清楚的說出我的情感，我的熱愛，我的眷戀，我的疼惜，因為它不知將會依附於哪裡。流光容易把人拋，我們抬頭可見的春光，和我們相聚的時間只是從縫隙裡透射出的一剎那，稍作轉身，水份濾乾，抖落一身嬌豔，乘風飄逝而去，化作春泥埋入塵埃里。
　　
面對花朵，我突然就看見了自己，同樣的是生命，只有外部姿態的不同，內裡的果核應是一脈相承的，一朵花就是一個世界，花開花謝，綻放與枯萎，都是一種自然必經的生長歷程，每一朵花的命運終究是注定的期緣，來也匆匆，去也匆匆，又何止是花朵呢。

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宋代陳亮《謝曾察院啟》有“嚴於律己，出而見之事功；心乎愛民，動必關夫治道”之說，這可能就是“嚴於律己，寬以待人”的出處。
中國人歷來講究恕道，所以“嚴於律己，寬以待人”就自然成為很多人的處事哲學。
律己寬人，作為中華民族的道統美德，就是要求遵循一定的道德準則和行為規範嚴格要求自己、約束自己、修養情操、完善品德，用寬宏大量的胸懷對待他人，這也就是《增廣賢文》中所強調的“以責人之心責己，以恕己之心恕人”。
待己之所以要嚴格，為的是不讓自己產生苟且的心態而一錯再錯；對待別人的過失和錯誤多加寬容，為的是給人以改過自新的機會。《菜根譚》說︰ “人之過誤宜恕，而在己則不可恕；己之困辱宜忍，而在人則不可忍”，“責人者，原無過於有過之中，則情平；責己者，求有過於無過之內，則德進”，就是這個道理。
人與人之間之所以紛爭不斷，有很大一部分原因在於我們只站在自己立場上看問題，而沒有設身處地地為對方設想，如果我們能像古人所倡導的 “律己宜帶秋風，處事宜帶春風”那樣，相信人與人的這些紛爭就一定會大大減少，社會也就會多一點和諧與溫情。
在人生的旅途上，我們會遇到各種各樣的人和事，用怎樣的境界和情懷去面對這個世界，關乎著你的福祉與成功。
常言道︰“見人之過易，見己之過難”。每個人都難免犯錯，只是我們往往對自己採取了寬容與視而不見的態度，而對於別人又往往過於嚴苛，這就是我們常常感到諸事不順、四處碰壁的一個重要原因。如果我們能夠“以責人之心責己，以恕己之心恕人”的態度對人對事，就能化隔閡為理解，化矛盾為友誼，就能達到“人和萬事興”的目標。
嚴於律己，寬以待人，不計較他人，不放縱自己。這是一種態度，一種情懷，一種境界。

Sitting at the back seat with my son, I felt my head hurt like hell as if it was going to explode at any time. I suffered from periodic migrainous neuralgia for many years. It has become part of my life and never bothered me too much until now. Usually, I took some pills and went for a sleep, when I woke up my old friend would go away. However, for this time the timing was really bad. We were heading home from a weekend short trip, and my son was in a high gear after a good nap. So it was impossible for me to have some quiet time, let alone a sleep. I sucked in deep breaths, fighting hot nausea which boiled in my throat. Oh, no. I can't throw up in front of my son. It would scare him. I told myself over and over again.

“Mama, Mama.." my son handed me a picture book and implored me to tell him a story. With the back of head exploding with pain, I couldn’t concentrate on the book. The words on it seemed to swirl out of the focus, so I made up one through my confused thoughts: Fox mother was sick, and the baby fox was getting hungry…. My voice was weak and twisted, as if from some far away stranger.

“Are you OK?” came from my husband, and his voice sounded strange and distant too. I didn’t know how to reply for a moment until I heard his anxious voice again: Answer me, are you all right?"

“Fine.” That’s all I could manage to speak. He was driving the car on a highway, and I couldn’t trouble him now.

“Mami is sick, be good and give mami a kiss, OK?" my husband said to my son.

Yu was so adorable that he climbed up on my legs and gave me a sweet kiss. Then he put his arms around my neck and tucked his head under my chin. “Gai, Gai.” he babbled when he pat me on the arms lightly. He tried to tuck me in like we did for him when he was not well.  For a moment, I felt my eyes stinging a little as if an invisible hand had just squeezed my heart. My son is only one and nine month old. It is impossible for him to fully understand what was going on, right?

I wanted to hold him like that forever, but the position made my head throb even worse. All the trees and bushes outside of the car window did a quick, sickening whirl. Lightly, I put him aside. For the next time, he behaved really well. He played his thumb and toy alone until he found a plane in the sky. "Fei fei" he exclaimed excitedly. We were driving on a highway, so soon the airplane disappeared into thin air. He couldn’t understand----in his memory, the plane would hang in the sky for a while. A logic answer to this mystery popped up in his little head---the plane must play hide-and-seek with him. So he covered his eyes with his plump hands for a minute. When he opened his eyes again and failed to find the plane, his lips pouted and he started to wail. Usually his logic would make me burst into a round of laugh. But not this time. Luckily, yu is not a wailing baby, and he is not difficult to deal with when he is crying.

We finally made home. When my husband was pulling over the car, I couldn‘t hold it any more. I bent over with my hands braced on my knees and I puked all over. I heard my parents coming around, "Are you Okey?"

“Get him out of there.” I managed to say. Yu was so scared. Sorry, my love.

When I felt better, I tormented myself with what-if scenarios. I am not in a fragile condition, but exposed myself long time to an unhealthy life-style, I have never been strong. What would happen to my son if I died untimely? I knew that physically he would be well-cared for. But what about his emotional wellbeing? He would grow up feeling abandoned by his mother, and no amount of logic would offset that primitive response.  It is time to make some changes. I didn’t have a care in the world, but now I have my boy to consider. It’s my responsibility to raise him, discipline him, and keep him safe while mold him into a responsible human being. So I need to take care of myself well first. From now on, I will pay regular visit to gym, and shy away all the unhealthy habits. I used not be a worrier, but I am a mother now.

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黃昏時分，突然變天，刮起了風，天色陰暗，不一會兒就下起了雨，可是依然很熱，此時的女人和男人在飯店準備吃晚飯，由於之前的談話兩人並不開心，所以女人 點了菜之後，沒有說一句話，只是無神的坐著，男人看出了女人的無聊，他拉著女人的手拿出指甲鉗幫女人剪起了指甲，女人沒有說什麼，手也一動不動，只是這樣 安靜的看著男人這張帥氣而有點陌生的臉，男人和女人是一年多以前認識的，也算是經歷了風風雨雨才走到了今天，可是這段時間男人和女人卻過得一點都不開心， 也不知道為什麼？上菜了，是男人點的糖醋里脊，這時女人說她想喝點酒，男人說你的胃不好，別喝了吧！女人說就喝一點，她今晚想喝一點酒，男人點了點頭說那 你少喝點吧！其實認識男人之前女人是滴酒不沾的，每次出去吃飯別人請喝酒，女人總是說我不喝酒，久而久之別人也知道女人這個習慣了，再喝酒時也就不再請女 人了，女人每次都是坐在旁邊靜靜的看別人喝。去年夏天的一個晚上，女人不開心，就獨自去買了三瓶啤酒，回家後一口氣喝下去，其實女人就是心裡好奇，想試試 自己的酒量，想嘗試一下酒醉的感覺，三瓶下肚後女人就吐了，後來還說了好多話，再後來發生了什麼就不知道了，第二天早上男人說你以後都不要喝酒了，他說女 人沒酒量，又沒酒品，就這樣好長一段時間女人都沒再喝酒，更沒喝醉過。今夜又是這樣的心情，又是這樣的不開心，女人又想起了酒，男人和女人對杯也一共才喝 了一瓶，真是酒不醉人人自醉啊！最後兩個人都沒吃幾口飯，就買單回去了。

也許醉酒的人永遠都說自己沒醉，女人一直在喃喃自語，說她還要喝酒，男人說你不能再喝了，就這樣摟著她一直到了家，回家後女人就哭了，摟著男人的 脖子，靠著男人的肩膀，這是久久以來的一種渲洩，女人哭著，說著，男人聽到動情處給她一個有力的擁抱，就這樣不知哭了多久，男人說別哭了，幫她擦乾眼淚， 可是女人卻止不住更是聲淚俱下，也許是心裡太難受，也許是酒精的作用，突然男人起身走了，說你一個人哭吧！就在這一刻女人的心如刀絞，一下子心疼的快要碎 了，他就打電話給男人，可是他的電話卻打不通，那一刻女人好無助，她在想萬一在這一刻死掉怎麼辦？就永遠再也看不到男人了，她掙扎著，努力的發了條信息給 男人，就無力的癱倒在床上了，不知過了多久，她的手機響了，瞑瞑之中也不知是在做夢還是真的，女人一點力氣都沒有，手一點都不聽她的使喚，後來她就不知什 麼了，再後來醒來時已是午夜時分，女人的思維開始慢慢清醒，看著窗外漆黑的夜，還有這安靜的房間，女人的臉上又滑下兩行淚，不知又哭了多久，不知又想了多 久，最後女人醒來時外面已是艷陽高照，女人全身都是酸的，頭也是暈的，她向公司請了假，又昏睡了一個上午。

女人發誓從此以後再也不沾一滴酒，因為喝了酒之後心會更痛！

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